Focus Group Volunteers – Recruiting now!

Every Life Matters a Cumbrian suicide prevention and suicide bereavement support charity. In summer 2020 we launched our Support After Suicide service for people in Cumbria bereaved and affected by suicide. We work alongside Cumbria Police, and other local groups to support people in the early weeks and months after a suicide. You can find out more about our Support After Suicide service here.

We are now recruiting volunteers with personal experience of bereavement by suicide to help us develop our service further. Scroll down for more details, or alternatively you can download this information as a PDF here.

To express interest in supporting us submit your details here and we’ll get back to you

Our commitment to co-production

We are committed to ensuring that the support we offer is led and shaped by the views and experiences of people who have been bereaved by suicide.

As part of this commitment we want to bring together a small group of volunteers who are willing to share their ideas, feedback and experiences with us to help improve how we support people in Cumbria who have lost a loved one to suicide.

Your contributions will ultimately help towards improving the breadth and quality of suicide bereavement services for people in the County.

What would the role involve?

You can help us by offering your ideas, thoughts and feedback in a variety of ways. You would only participate in a way which you felt comfortable with. This includes;

  • Group meetings – coming together with 6-8 other people who have lost a loved one to suicide to share feedback and ideas about areas of our service, and bereavement support more generally. Meetings would last around 90 minutes and would be held online or face to face, depending on the latest Covid-19 guidelines, and would be supported by staff and Trustees from Every Life Matters.
  • Individuals conversations – Sometimes conversations are easier one-to-one. At times we might ask for volunteers from the group to help guide us on development of particular areas of our service through a telephone or face to face conversation.
  • Surveys and questionnaires – Sometimes we might need simple yes/no opinions, or preferences, and in this case we might send out simple online surveys for our volunteers.

Some of the areas we are seeking ideas, views and feedback around to begin with are;

  • Contents and wording of a Condolence Pack given to families shortly after death of their loved one.
  • Developing the suicide bereavement information and advice on our website
  • How we appropriately stay in contact with people in the longer term who we have supported
  • Options for ways of providing group support for people bereaved by suicide in Cumbria
  • Contents of a Care Package given to families on our first visit
  • Developing and Annual Remembrance Event for people in Cumbria bereaved by suicide

What amount of time commitment is involved?

  • We will seek to gather opinions from our volunteer Focus Group members around 6-9 times a year. We will reach out to volunteers at regular intervals as our service develops.
  • Most focus groups and individual calls will happen on weekday evenings.
  • You can dip in and out of volunteering depending on your other commitments, or your readiness to take part at that time. We fully appreciate that there will be times when it is simply too emotionally challenging to take part.
  • You might also have a preferred way of engaging – groups, individual conversations or surveys. This is also your choice.

Who can become a volunteer?

  • Anyone who has been bereaved by suicide, whether this was a family member, friend or work colleague or other.
  • For your own wellbeing we ask that your loss was at least 6 months prior to becoming a volunteer. The role may trigger memories about your own personal loss and we need to make sure you are going to be OK.

Getting support

  • We take your wellbeing very seriously and we fully appreciate that talking about your experiences of loss and the support you received afterwards may be very challenging.
  • We will provide support and a listening ear to all participants before, during and after any volunteer activity.


  • Where volunteering activity takes place at a physical venue we will refund public transport costs or private car travel 40 pence per mile.
  • Where meetings fall over lunchtime/dinner time, or are over 3 hours’ duration, we will provide a meal for all participants.

If you would like to find out more about this opportunity contact Paul on 07588 016 166 or email

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